Saw Earl’s calming video? Start here.
When your child is overwhelmed and words aren’t helping.
You want to help. But in the middle of another meltdown, it can be hard to know what to do next.
The Calm Kit puts three gentle, hands-on calming tools in one simple, 2-page guide—including the forehead touch shown in Earl’s Positive Points video. No equipment to buy. No complicated routine to remember.
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Small steps for big feelings
Inside your free guide
- Positive Points: step-by-step instructions for gentle, still contact on the forehead.
- A gentle upper-chest hold: the guide calls this the “Vagus Nerve Hold”—a quiet touch option when your child welcomes it.
- TMJ circles: light touch around the jaw, with clear instructions to stop if it’s uncomfortable.
- When touch isn’t welcome: how to respect your child’s cues, plus space to note what you tried.
Includes links to demonstrations and a free 15-minute parent call.
Ask before touching. Stop if your child pulls away, tenses up, or says no. Never hold them in place. These are options to explore together, not a promise to stop every meltdown.
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